We have 3 children who live abroad with my younger brother. This situation has gone on for 26 years we’ve been married. Initially I felt betrayed but later I realized that, the boys were giving him what I couldn’t and that gave me peace of mind. He sleeps with them and gives them money. After months of painful sex I decided to deny him anal sex so he started bringing small boys to the house and sleeps with them. I mean this is a man of God, a very renowned man of God here in Ghana who preaches the word of God on TV and on Radio. It was very uncomfortable for me and that made me hate sex with him. A month after we got married I realised that my husband loves anal sex.
“Dear Etornam, it has taken me years to gather courage to speak about this situation of mine.
